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PYE Featured on Nope! We're Not Monogamous Podcast

Learn how scheduling is causing - or solving - jealousy and safety issues

Open Relationship Calendar AppLess Logistics
More Connection

Create your dating schedule, share a slice with each connection, and set boundaries everyone can see. Discreet but concrete — less jealousy, fewer texts, more time for actual dates.

Send Invites
Save Hours
Set & Share Boundaries
Avoid Jealousy
PYE open relationship calendar app showing date invitations and scheduling on mobile

Date on Your Terms

Send invite links via WhatsApp, text, or any chat app. No calendar sharing needed. One and done.

  • Share invitations anywhere
  • Recipients pick a time — no account required

Avoid Jealousy

Set and share boundaries so everyone's in the loop. Your connection sees them and can add more; your partner in your home relationship can see them once the date is booked. Discreet but concrete.

  • Boundaries visible to all
  • Less jealousy, more trust

No Calendar Intermingling

Invite links mean zero risk of one connection seeing another's details. No accounts required for recipients.

  • Hosted in Canada
  • Self-contained links — nothing leaks

Built for Open Relationships

Dating in an open relationship means more scheduling, more messages, and jealousy when someone's out of the loop. Set and share boundaries to avoid jealousy. We built PYE for that.

The "When Are You Free?" Spiral

Endless back-and-forth texts to find a time. An invite link replaces 20 messages — they see the times you've set aside for dates, pick a slot, you confirm. See how date invitations work.

Too Much Intimacy, Too Fast

Sharing calendars with a casual connection feels like moving in together. Invites keep it light — one and done, no ongoing link. Learn more about how PYE protects your privacy.

One Wrong Share and Everyone Knows

Accidental calendar shares can out you. Invitations are self-contained — nothing leaks between the people you're seeing. Read our research on scheduling and jealousy.

60% of people in open relationships spend 2–3 hours per week just on scheduling logistics.

PYE Community Survey

Core Feature

Send an invite.
They pick a time.
Done.

Grab a slice of your dating schedule and share with any connection via any popular messaging service. They book in minutes, no fuss. Helps connections find time with you without oversharing.

Invite link
You control who books
Dating schedule stays private
PYE Respond to Invitation form: activities, boundaries, and location for date invites

Set & Share Boundaries — Avoid Jealousy

Pick a slice of your dating schedule to share, set boundaries and activities. Your connection sees them and can add more. Date booked? Your partner in your home relationship can see them too. Discreet but concrete. It really helps avoid jealousy.

Everyone in the loopLess jealousy

Privacy

Granular visibility controls. Each connection only sees what you choose to share.

Your Dating Schedule

Set time aside for dates. PYE keeps it private and blocks it off from Google and your home partner's bookings — you only share when you want to date.

Sync Google Calendar

PYE blocks off your dating schedule automatically from Google and home partner's bookings. You're only available for dates when you say so.

Open Relationship Calendar App FAQ

Real questions from people navigating open relationships.

I spend hours every week just coordinating dates. Is there a better way?

You're not imagining it — in our community survey, 60% of people in open relationships said they spend 2–3 hours a week on scheduling alone. The back-and-forth texts, the “when are you free” loops, the checking three calendars before you can say yes. PYE replaces all of that with one link. You set the times you're open to dates, send the link, and your connection picks a slot. That's it. No more scheduling as a second job.

What if one of my connections accidentally sees something meant for someone else?

This is one of the biggest fears in open relationships — and one of the most common accidents with shared calendars. In PYE, each invite is completely isolated. When you send someone a link, they only see the times you chose to share with them. They can't see who else is on your calendar, what other dates you have, or anything about your other connections. There's nothing to accidentally stumble across because the information simply isn't there.

How do I stop new connections from taking over all my free time?

NRE is real. A new connection is exciting and it's easy to let them book every open evening you have — until your nesting partner is staring at an empty week. PYE lets you carve out specific time for dating and keep the rest protected. Your Google Calendar stays blocked, your partner's time stays sacred, and you decide exactly which windows to share with whom. You set the pace, not whoever texts first.

My partner gets anxious every time I go on a date. Can anything actually help?

A lot of that anxiety comes from not knowing — not knowing when, not knowing what's planned, not knowing the boundaries. PYE lets you set activities and boundaries before a date is booked, and once confirmed, your nesting partner can see the details you've agreed to share. It's not surveillance — it's the kind of transparency that replaces “I don't want to ask” with information that's just there. People tell us it takes the edge off significantly.

I don't want to ask a new connection to download an app.

You don't have to. When you send a date invitation, your connection gets a link — that's it. They see the times you've shared, pick one, and respond. No account, no download, no sign-up. It's just a link in whatever chat app you're already talking on. Asking someone to install an app before a first date is awkward. This isn't that.

What actually is a date invitation?

It's a link you send to someone you want to see. The link shows the times you've set aside for dates — not your whole calendar, just the windows you chose. They pick a time, you confirm, and it's booked. Your Google Calendar gets blocked automatically, and your nesting partner's schedule stays protected. Think of it like Calendly, but built for people who need privacy between connections and boundaries their partner can see.

Is PYE free?

Yes — you can sign up, set up your calendar, and send your first invite without paying anything. We have paid plans for people who want more, but you can try the core experience for free and see if it actually helps before you commit.

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