Learn how scheduling is causing - or solving - jealousy and safety issues
Ethical non-monogamy requires careful coordination and clear communication. PYE is the only dating scheduler designed specifically for ENM, with built-in consent tracking, boundary setting, and privacy controls.
Ethical non-monogamy requires careful coordination, clear boundaries, and transparent communication. Traditional dating apps and calendar tools weren't built for ENM's unique needs.
Multiple rounds of back-and-forth take hours every week, and contribute to missed connections
Finding free time is tough when you're juggling multiple schedules. Dropping the ball can harm your relationships
Sharing too many or too few details can break trust with partners. And no one really trusts Google with potentially compromising relationship data.
Built by the ENM community, for the ENM community. PYE understands the unique challenges of ethical non-monogamy and provides tools designed specifically for ENM practitioners.
Every feature in PYE is designed with ethical non-monogamy in mind, from consent tracking to boundary management.
Send proposals to multiple connections with priority options to maximize your available time and balance your dating life.
All parties explicitly accept before a date is confirmed, preventing miscommunication and ensuring everyone is comfortable with the plans.
Granular settings for who can see your connections and date details, protecting your privacy across all your relationships.
Link multiple Google calendars and share them between partners with granular privacy controls to eliminate double-booking and scheduling conflicts.
See all your connections in one comprehensive calendar view, making it easy to visualize your ENM dating schedule at a glance.
Keep all date-related communication with your various connections in one place instead of scattered across multiple text threads.
Your data is hosted in Canada with GDPR compliance, ensuring world-class privacy protection and data sovereignty for your relationships.
Common questions about scheduling dates for ethical non-monogamy.
Google Calendar shows everyone everything — when you share a calendar, partners see all your events and who else is on it. PYE isolates each partner: they only see the availability and details you choose to share with them. No cross-partner visibility, no accidental leaks. Plus consent confirmation and boundary setting that Google Calendar doesn't offer.
Tools like When2Meet and Doodle are built for group meetings where everyone sees the same poll or availability. There's no per-person privacy — if you add multiple partners, they'd all see each other. PYE keeps each connection separate and adds consent tracking, boundary setting, and ongoing relationship management that one-off scheduling tools don't support.
Yes. PYE uses granular privacy controls so each partner only sees the information you share with them. Unlike Google Calendar or shared scheduling apps, there's no risk of partners seeing each other's data. Your data is hosted in Canada with enterprise-grade security and is never sold or used for advertising.
Google Calendar is so common in polyamory, it's practically a Fetlife category. It's also fundamentally broken for it. Here's why — and what the community is doing about it.
Spoiler: It's not the new partner that's the problem. It's the seven group chats and four calendars you're juggling to make it all work.
Coordinate your connections with clarity, consent, and privacy — no more scheduling chaos.