The First ENM Dating Scheduler
Ethical non-monogamy requires careful coordination and clear communication. PYE is the only dating scheduler designed specifically for ENM, with built-in consent tracking, boundary setting, and privacy controls.
ENM Dating is Complex
Ethical non-monogamy requires careful coordination, clear boundaries, and transparent communication. Traditional dating apps and calendar tools weren't built for ENM's unique needs.
Text Tag Kills the Fun
Multiple rounds of back-and-forth take hours every week, and contribute to missed connections
Scheduling Chaos
Finding free time is tough when you're juggling multiple schedules. Dropping the ball can harm your relationships
Data Leaks to Partners ... and Google
Sharing too many or too few details can break trust with partners. And no one really trusts Google with potentially compromising relationship data.
Open Relationships Should Be Fun, Not Frustrating
Built by the ENM community, for the ENM community. PYE understands the unique challenges of ethical non-monogamy and provides tools designed specifically for ENM practitioners.
Why ENM People Choose PYE
- Explicit consent tracking for every date and activity
- Boundary setting and respect across all connections
- Privacy controls for different relationship dynamics
- Invitations you can drop right into your messaging apps, with real availability
Perfect for ENM
- Supports various ENM structures and styles
- Prevents scheduling conflicts across connections
- Respects individual boundaries and preferences
- Community-driven development and features
ENM-Specific Features
Every feature in PYE is designed with ethical non-monogamy in mind, from consent tracking to boundary management.
Smart Scheduling
Send proposals to multiple connections with priority options to maximize your available time and balance your dating life.
Consent Confirmation
All parties explicitly accept before a date is confirmed, preventing miscommunication and ensuring everyone is comfortable with the plans.
Privacy Controls
Granular settings for who can see your connections and date details, protecting your privacy across all your relationships.
Google Calendar Integration
Link multiple Google calendars and share them between partners with granular privacy controls to eliminate double-booking and scheduling conflicts.
Unified Calendar View
See all your connections in one comprehensive calendar view, making it easy to visualize your ENM dating schedule at a glance.
In-app Messaging
Keep all date-related communication with your various connections in one place instead of scattered across multiple text threads.
Enterprise Security
Your data is hosted in Canada with GDPR compliance, ensuring world-class privacy protection and data sovereignty for your relationships.
ENM Dating Scheduler FAQ
Common questions about scheduling dates for ethical non-monogamy.
How does PYE differ from Google Calendar for ENM scheduling?
Google Calendar shows everyone everything — when you share a calendar, partners see all your events and who else is on it. PYE isolates each partner: they only see the availability and details you choose to share with them. No cross-partner visibility, no accidental leaks. Plus consent confirmation and boundary setting that Google Calendar doesn't offer.
Why not use When2Meet or Doodle for scheduling dates?
Tools like When2Meet and Doodle are built for group meetings where everyone sees the same poll or availability. There's no per-person privacy — if you add multiple partners, they'd all see each other. PYE keeps each connection separate and adds consent tracking, boundary setting, and ongoing relationship management that one-off scheduling tools don't support.
Is my ENM dating schedule private?
Yes. PYE uses granular privacy controls so each partner only sees the information you share with them. Unlike Google Calendar or shared scheduling apps, there's no risk of partners seeing each other's data. Your data is hosted in Canada with enterprise-grade security and is never sold or used for advertising.
Ready to Simplify Your ENM Dating?
Coordinate your connections with clarity, consent, and privacy — no more scheduling chaos.